Back down!

Let me just say, that in a certain time we really have to back down, give it some thought and go to our lives to figure it all out.
We have some many activities... but when we realize when mentioning them is some kind of excuse to justify a lot of things we didn't had the right attitude towards the main concerns in life.
Imagine the following: It's a rainy day and you are at home, some invitations are delivered by people that care about you, but you are just somewhat laizy, and since you don't want people to thing poorly about you what do you do? You'll reply very politely and with the best intention by thinking in you... (and now what will be the term to use to get out of a big complicated situation? Oh yeah here it comes...) But... there is some thing i have to do, that i didn't really want to do but you know i've been delaying this like forever and i can't let this go on anymore.
Then the reaction can be very diverse but nonetheless it has gotten some kind of alibi that doesn't allow people from getting very mad at you in a serious situation. However strategies can diverge. There is no perfect solution but the truth is that when you face someone you should really look deep in their being and their personality, you'll know what they allow or not.

Hey never forget we must and should be honest and there is nothing new about it, but the capability to do so, i guess that is the main question. I've encontered a lot of people that do what i previously told you on a regular basis, but how to procede? No human will always do what it should, instead it will go to their flaw by nature of all human race... And break what he's supposed to do.. Shameful it is by the hesitation of doing the right thing... Why does that happen? That i cannot tell you since i don't really have a definitive answer.

Anyway life won't never be a highway... So the good thing to get from this little text is to not being everytime straight forward about everything, cause you can't do it, face it and then do your best.